The phrase in the title of this post is one usually associated with buying and selling (although sometimes it is used in courtship too!). A potential buyer makes an offer and the seller decides to pass on that offer in the hopes of a better offer down the road. This phrase came to mind this morning when I read Romans 8:25, “But if we hope for what we do not see, with perseverance we wait eagerly for it.”
The context makes it clear that the initial offer comes to us from the flesh (cf. vv. 12-13). It promises us payment that will satisfy certain of our desires. But because of the Spirit’s presence in our lives, we have the hope of a better offer, “our adoption as sons, the redemption of our body” (v. 23). As long as we live in this present world, there will always be two offers—flesh and Spirit. The tension for us is that the flesh’s offer is already on the table. The “payment” can be delivered immediately. We can see it, smell it, touch it, and taste it. Not so with the Spirit’s offer. “Payment” is future and we cannot see it (cf. v. 24 “for who hopes for what he already sees?”).
Here is the heart of verse 25—our ability to hold out for the better offer is rooted in our hope. Paul ties them together in a cause-effect relationship: “if we hope…we wait eagerly for it.” Hope enables us to wait. The stronger the hope, the more eagerly we wait. So, how do we grow stronger in hope? A lot could be said here, but let me just draw our attention to where Paul started this section of Romans because I think it is the centerpiece of our hope. Back in chapter five, Paul wrote this, “hope does not disappoint because the love of God has been poured out within our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us. 6For while we were still helpless, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly” (vv. 5-6).
Those two verses introduce themes that Paul returns to in chapter 8: (1) hope (vv. 20, 24-25); (2) the love of God (v. 39; implied in our sonship too, vv. 14-16); (3) the Holy Spirit’s presence in us (vv. 9-11, 23); and (4) the death of Christ on our behalf (vv. 3, 11, 32, 34). We could summarize it like this, “Our hope is based on God’s love for us proven by the death of Christ and confirmed by the presence of the Spirit.”
Or, to return to the phrase in the title, we can hold out for that better offer because we are sure it will come—God loves us and will deliver what He promised, having proved that by sending His Son to die in our place and confirmed it by providing the down payment of His Spirit. The strength of our hope is directly connected to our grasp of these incredible truths. That means are ability to say no to the flesh’s offers is tied to our grasp of these truths too. Glorying in God’s love, Christ’s death and resurrection, and the Spirit’s witness to our adoption is the fuel that kindles the fire of hope. When our hearts are satisfied with these, we can hold out for that better offer.